Havoc at holiday dinner
Dear Annie: I am the default holiday host for my extended family. My parents are divorced and both come, my sister arrives late and stressed with her kids, my brother shows up with whatever new girlfriend he is serious about, and my mother uses the whole day to quietly criticize everyone’s life choices, starting with mine. By the time we sit down to dinner, I am so tense that one small comment can set off a chain reaction. Last year my mom made a remark about my sister’s children being “wild” and my sister burst into tears. My dad got defensive on her behalf, my brother cracked ...