It’s all about family for Michele Knife Sterner
MARSHALL — Lakota family heritage and Southwest Minnesota State University both led Michele Knife Sterner to set high goals for herself, and helped her to earn the honor of becoming SMSU’s 2019 recipient of the Cathy Cowan Award.
The recognition, one of the most highly regarded honors given to a member of the SMSU community once each year, goes to someone who has made outstanding contributions to both SMSU and the region. Cowan was a popular SMSU psychology professor who died in an auto accident Dec. 22, 2001.
Knife Sterner, the associate director of SMSU’s Access Opportunities for Success program and coordinator of the AOS Summer Bridge orientation, was born in Marshall. Her older brother, John Sterner, was 3 years old when their parents Mike Sterner and Karen Knife Sterner, decided to become part of the SMSU faculty after applying in response to encouragement from SMSU professor Jim Denevan.
Her years growing up in Marshall included keeping strong ties to her Lakota Sioux heritage. She and her family are part of the Rosebud Sioux community based in western South Dakota.
She said SMSU shares many qualities with Lakota communities because anyone can attain family status based living in the same community and interacting on a daily basis.
“If a niece or a nephew or someone who’s like family becomes a parent, it’s standard for people to think of the child like a son, daughter, or grandchild,” Knife Sterner said. “Family ties can multiply quickly. SMSU reminds me of that because it’s a family kind of atmosphere. We offer an inclusion that doesn’t exist at many universities.”
She added that the current personal atmosphere on campus is a continuation of what her parents helped to establish, and which she now helps to continue as a faculty member.
Moments exemplifying that tradition include one when she was playing racquetball in a Bellows Academic Center hallway with her brother and accidentally broke a light fixture. One of the custodians jokingly told them they were in trouble before making it clear that they weren’t.
She also remembers her frequent route between her dad’s office in the physical education building and her mom’s in the education department. She was part of many crowds that produced high noise levels in SMSU’s PE gym, as well as the large crowd that attended a major swimming championship hosted by the former varsity swim team.
After high school graduation in 1995, Knife Sterner attended Moorhead State University where she earned a four-year degree in cultural anthropology with a minor in American Indian Studies. She is pursuing a master’s degree through the University of Minnesota in youth community and family education.
Her first job experiences after college included employment with the Minnesota Literacy Council and the Shakopee Mdewakanton Sioux Community.
She’s in her 11th year of employment at SMSU. Her role in the AOS program gives her an opportunity to help new students get off to the best possible start on their paths to degrees.
About 180 students currently participate in AOS. It is open to anyone who fits into at least one of three demographic categories; either a first-generation college student, a recipient of a federal Pell grant, or a student of color.
“It’s not a remedial program,” Knife Sterner said. “Some of our students need academic support services, but many others easily excel. We’ve had four participants who became Honors Club presidents.”
Her Summer Bridge orientation serves 30 to 40 incoming students each year. New students earn up to eight general studies credits while getting acclimated with services available throughout the campus.
She serves as faculty advisor for two student-led organizations; the Oyate Club and United Global Leaders Yearning for Success.
Knife Sterner and her husband, Oak Kelsey, have two children, 13-year-old daughter Kaziah and 9-year son Felix. Along with family members, she’s been active in a variety of community-based organizations such as Marshall community theater, the Southwest Figure Skating Club and youth sports leagues. She has served as an organizer and host of the 38+2 Horse Riders who annually commemorate 19th century American Indian history.
She said she first met Cowan through the Marshall Area Stage Company. Based on her impression of Cowan and the friendship that developed, she feels especially honored to receive the Cowan Award.
“I consider it a great honor,” Knife Sterner said. “I try to work for the good of the community as much as possible, to contribute in ways that might help to make us even more exceptional. Students used to come over to my parent’s house for academic help and sometimes just for support in general. I want to help with community building because that’s the way they raised me.”
SMSU Professor of Arts and Humanities Pat Brace, who was a good friend and colleague of Cowan’s and who served on the 2019 award selection committee, said Knife Sterner exemplifies the genuine, enthusiastic community spirit that the Cowan Award is intended to highlight.
“Cathy was a wonderful person because of how she combined outstanding academic work with being a dedicated mentor to students and someone always willing to volunteer,” Brace said. “Even if it looked like a thankless job, she’d do it if it could help the university and community. Michele has all of those same qualities.”